Chemistry with someone else while being in a long term relationship?

[Anonymous]

Imagine being in a long term relationship. You truly love that person but at some point you have started getting tired of it but not in a level that you want to finish it. Suddenly, you meet someone else that blows your mind. You feel attraction and their is a passion and a chemistry between you two. What would you do? Would you break up with the one that you love and is actually your family? Would you leave everything behind and live the new thing having a distance from the past? Or would you push away the new one and be more focused to fix everything with your partner?

[D-Pad_Chad]

Be about the most brain dead thing a person can do. And I see it all the time. Women get bored, want something new and exciting and decimate their lives and families.

Then end up making a boo hoo woe is me video about not being able to find a good man. If you don't believe me, just type it in youtube, "woman regrets leaving man" there's so many results it should probably have its own tab 😆

[Asker]

It is happening to a lot of men also 🤷‍♀️

[D-Pad_Chad]

Statically speaks women do leave more as shown below... men do to, but I would call anyone who leaves a good thing a fool and idiot.

fivethirtyeight.com/.../

Which leads to this stat...

today.yougov.com/.../breaking

Also interesting fact, women file for divorce 80% of the time. For, what seems like, financial gain.

That last bit doesn't really apply to your question, but it is interesting. However the rest of the stats seem pretty poignant to your question.

[Crankor]

The question to ask is will the same thing happen. Initial chemistry will always seem new exciting and irreplaceable. Have to look at what your share together, like hobbies and ideas and willingness to learn from each other etc. If you don't have things like those to keep a relationship alive and fresh when needed then it will just repeat to where you are now

[20yearsolder]

In a heartbeat, long distance sucks. Not being able to physically touch and kiss and hold that person is torture. I want someone physically there

[Luckycharms12]

Easy for someone new to be fun and exciting that goes fast you might not like what you find. If you are happy but little bored work on making it more exciting