So I've been dating this guy for a few months I'm normally the one to text him in the mornings and he will text back. but recently I feel like I'm the one who is always initiating contact or making plans to hang out. When he's with me he's the sweetest thing but when I'm out of sight I feel like I'm out of his mind. I Haven't texted him all day hoping he will at least notice..Is this stupid? How can I get him to put in more of an effort ?
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Pull back so he can pull forward. You are making it way too easy for him. Why text you if he knows you are going to text him? Once he sees that you are not going to initiate contact, if he likes you, he will text you or call u. Make him chase u. You're life doesn't revolve around him; show him. This guy may not call or text you as much as you'd like, but he has to be the one to chase u. Men are the hunters. And if you continue to contact him or stress about him, you are definitely giving off the impression that you are an insecure, needy woman who needs his attention and affections to feel good about herself (total turn off!) And let's face it, you know you're not desperate! You're a confident, beautiful, woman! Now make him work!0