Why when a couple breaks up or it’s not working out your buddies want to set you up with someone else?

[Anonymous]

[Emiliamazing]

I think it's a common reaction. A lot of times it depends on how the break up evolved or is evolving. There will always be friends that think it's the best idea.

ultimately it's up to you. You can always communicate with your friends that you are interested in dating or you're not because you want to take some time to consider your next move. I have gone through this, and so have millions of other individuals. I would not recommend going the route of having a "rebound"

[Emiliamazing]

Thank you for the MHO 😊

[AmandaYVR]

They're going by the "The best way to get over someone is to get under someone."

Girls do it too sometimes.

[Asker]

Does it help?

[Asker]

And if he can’t get over you or hard to move on does it mean he cares about h

[AmandaYVR]

Hard to answer. There isn't really a definitive answer. It's a boost for some people. It tells them that they have 'market value' (ewww I hate that phrase), and that they are desirable to someone else. (Maybe. It might just be sex to the new person, nothing more.) It's certainly a hormone rush, for a brief night or whatever.

Some do a string of hookups, and it distracts and amuses them for a while. But later they admit to themselves that it was just trying to fill a hole, pass the time, whatever whatever.

Girls ask this q a lot - "And if he can’t get over you or hard to move on does it mean he cares about you?" See, that's not the thing to focus on. It's over, the relationship. You can't keep looking for signs that they want it/you back. It just delays your healing, your moving on.
People have sex with others because they want to. It doesn't mean something more about the other past partner.

[Wise4myage]

What's so bad about that?