Sure, a date is where both sides enjoy each outher company, I am not there to get paid to entertine him or him me Spliting the bill is all fine and great :) I can also feel free to order then what I like over trying to think what be nice but not be an ass
Only case that it be an issue, is if they insist or invite to a excpinceve place, if you invite, you should be willing to take that exstra, be the same if if I pick a high price place
Depends on the guy. Splitting the bill is the default unless he insists on paying. Either way, that doesn't determine anything in regards to my interest in seeing him again.
Shit tests are biological because if they choose the wrong guy they have a 9 month problem on their hands. Men need to realize this and not see it as some ego or arrogance about the women.
If a woman is open-minded and sees positives beyond that dreaded "who pays for the date" issue (which isn't really a big deal), she'll want to see him again.
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It is part of the vetting process. Gold diggers will vanish and never to be heard from again while they look for another one to lighten up some sucker's wallet 😁😁😁
Not if there isn’t chemistry. Why should either bother.
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I always expect a woman to pay her share on the first date. If she refuses a second date because of it, she has done me a favor by showing her true colors early on, before I waste any more time on her.
I recently had an epiphany, and I'm assimilating what it means: As weird as this may sound I have experienced the way of reaching unlimited power, fulfillment, and happiness. And it's so simple nobody ever sees it.
It is non other than distinguishing the SINGLE most important thing from the rest.
I realized that what happens to people is that they are self appointed to so many other things that, even when interesting, they aren't the bull's eye. And that keeps them ignorant of the single thing.
The single things alone catapults you quickly to the greatest success. But for that you have to embrace an idea that is hard to most people, which is giving up on everything else. That by doing little, but slightly better than usual, you get the most. You are literally unstoppable.
Men shouldn't pay for everything. A woman should be thoughtful and take care of her man from time to time. Otherwise the woman is simply just an accessory.
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Sure, a date is where both sides enjoy each outher company, I am not there to get paid to entertine him or him me
Spliting the bill is all fine and great :)
I can also feel free to order then what I like over trying to think what be nice but not be an ass
Only case that it be an issue, is if they insist or invite to a excpinceve place, if you invite, you should be willing to take that exstra, be the same if if I pick a high price place
Depends on the guy. Splitting the bill is the default unless he insists on paying. Either way, that doesn't determine anything in regards to my interest in seeing him again.
No, that's it. Also, women will often make this offer on a first date as a shit test.
Shit tests are biological because if they choose the wrong guy they have a 9 month problem on their hands. Men need to realize this and not see it as some ego or arrogance about the women.
Then if a woman gets abused these types are the first to scream at her to "choose better men!!!" there's no winning lmao
@Minxxie Ha exactly.
I will...
others, are not my problem, lol
If a woman is open-minded and sees positives beyond that dreaded "who pays for the date" issue (which isn't really a big deal), she'll want to see him again.
It is part of the vetting process. Gold diggers will vanish and never to be heard from again while they look for another one to lighten up some sucker's wallet 😁😁😁
sometimes the guy doesn't know it's a date in the first place and thinks it's two friends having lunch
If a man is not generous they will not be a good leader
I'm not comfortable having him always pay, so yes
Not if there isn’t chemistry. Why should either bother.
I always expect a woman to pay her share on the first date. If she refuses a second date because of it, she has done me a favor by showing her true colors early on, before I waste any more time on her.
That's not what matters in a relationship.
True and that is not an appropriate answer for the question above but I appreciate the opinion lol
I recently had an epiphany, and I'm assimilating what it means: As weird as this may sound I have experienced the way of reaching unlimited power, fulfillment, and happiness. And it's so simple nobody ever sees it.
It is non other than distinguishing the SINGLE most important thing from the rest.
I realized that what happens to people is that they are self appointed to so many other things that, even when interesting, they aren't the bull's eye. And that keeps them ignorant of the single thing.
The single things alone catapults you quickly to the greatest success. But for that you have to embrace an idea that is hard to most people, which is giving up on everything else. That by doing little, but slightly better than usual, you get the most. You are literally unstoppable.
I am drinking bourbon... come on man. lol
😉😉😉🥂
Only way splitting the check is bad, is if the meals weren't the same price. Each person should pay for what they ordered.
Traditionally NO. However, I will say ONLY if the girl offers, if not, do it as an intrinsic gesture without question.
Yes there is nothing wrong in splitting the bill. I always split the bill with my boyfriend.
He might, he might not.
At least he will have established a line in the sand.
What line is that?
that he's not going to be a free ride.
A free ride? Most men in 2022 have to choose between buying a woman a plate of food and paying their electric bill so I get your mindset.
I rather just pay my own bill and leave it at that.
If this is true, then this takes pickiness to a whole new level.
Only if he's good looking otherwise she was just using you for a free meal to begin with
No, men should have to pay for everything. never date a cheap man because the money he isn't wasting on you, he is wasting it on a side piece
I disagree but it's a hilarious comment for sure.
why do you disagree if I am right?
Men shouldn't pay for everything. A woman should be thoughtful and take care of her man from time to time. Otherwise the woman is simply just an accessory.