ok long story short my ex broke up with me 3 months ago. its our 2nd break up in 2 1/2 years.First time he said we were too different. Second he said he isn't inlove with me anymore and it sucks.
My problem is now I'm torn into with myself. The best way to put it is this;
im starting to have a little crush for this guy in class and may even consider being with him. I really want to find someone that will treat me right and trully love me and respect me for who I am and not give up on me as easily as he did.
But at the same time for some reason I feel sometime down the line me and my ex will meet up again, be a little more mature about things and might actually work things out. He was a great guy but my flaws kept him from commiting and he couldn't look past that.
I know the best thing to do is move on but I'm fighting between moving on forever or just date and see what happens.How can I live my life without worrying about these things? I don't want my ex back right now but maybe someday down the line things might be different and I don't want to mess it up. ( I think too much don't I?)
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i think that you should date or pursue this other guy because your ex boy friend was probably not in "love" because he could not accept you for your flaws.i think you need a guy who will treat you right and if he does see a flaw in you he would not want to break up over it.or even make you change.your ex should have looked at all of the good qualitys instead of the few bad ones.when a person starts focussing on the bad parts of a relationship and not the good it will never work.0