What's the best way to meet the love of your life in 2023? (Page 2)
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Ask her to meetup at the Oyster bar.
I'd be too shy to look at those women in the eyes.
You're 31 you still have time to turn it around unless you enjoy being shy and timid.
Can you help me?
I work with women man. But what I can say is you need to get out of your comfort zone and ACT AS IF you have confidence. You will need to force yourself to be social and brave. Do it enough and you should be fine.
In what place should I start?
First thing you need to do is stop identifying as this shy guy and hoping women have compassion. You have already given up mentally. I used to stutter. I didn't identify as a stutterer I worked to get rid of it and now nobody remembers me stuttering because I didn't wear it on my sleeve like you do so start talking with confidence and when you are out say hello to as many people as you can. Look women in the eye and just say hello.
Makes sense, maybe I should delete this account and create one with an username like confident dude or something along those lines, maybe strongstud.
I mean my question would be why have you already decided you're this guy? If you believe it in your soul and choose not to change then maybe you're addicted to the pity you get? I don't know but Yeah I would change everything.
Look in the mirror. Because loving yourself and avoiding relationships is the only way for a man to stay happy in this poison entitled female world.
Has to be through dating app or work
which dating app you think is the best?
Tinder, bumble, even Facebook has a dating app now
Facebook is surprisingly good. All my clients use bumble though. I think so far it's the best. Age does come into play though.
I just feel like girls do not want to get approached in public
Many women don't want to get approached by just anyone in public. Men need to change it up a bit and get some signals first before just approaching strangers like they did 15 years ago.
Mutual friends and doing a hobby
I don’t have friends
@Vinnygraphix OK what about cousins and family members or colleagues that you work with any of those can do?
None of my family members talk to me. After my mom passed away. & co workers I do not hangout not being picky but I can’t hangout with ghetto class humans
And i am a only child
I have none I’ve have spent 99.99% if my life in solitude.
I have no-one i have spent 99.99% of my life by my self.
@Vinnygraphix well my mom passed in 2016 and I am an only child as well but I still do activities with my family and this new year. I am trying to commit myself to going out a little bit more even if it is by myself I literally have one true friend here, so it’s hard because she has a child so I have to do some growing up
Thing is i have been by my self 99% of my life so how can i get out and fit in society without having social skills not knowing what to talk about with people
@Vinnygraphix if you didn’t develop social skills back then you can always develop them now most people talk about current events and whatever celebrity is popular or whatever or trending if you have social media or the news it’s easy to just see these things if you like books, there’s places for that go to the places you are interested in and try it out. If someone comes to you and sparks a conversation with you best thing you can do is smile and say hi and see what they’re talking about then add to it. Trust me I get it. I have social like anxiety sometimes because , I’m not sure what to say or am I actually able to have the conversation but you’re their input what you want
Living Life
LIVIN LAAFFF
Women, please let us know.
At age 52 probably senior living or go play bingo.
I’m out here boxing fools and knocking them out
you dont
Church lol
In person