He went to see if I'd been back since we set up our date. It's true, he hadn't been online since then.
We haven't met yet
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I was just looking at his profile and checking if he messaged me. I don't know... I think it's extreme esp. if we haven't met yet. He won't take my call now. I kind of see it as a red flag that he's possessive.
It may be a red flag. I don't know enough about either of you to say. Either way it doesn't sound like you are not compatible.
Don't you think it's a bit crazy? We haven't met yet. Now he won't answer my calls cause he says I'm still looking. WOW!
Everyone has different standards on, what is and is not acceptable behavior. I don't want to go out with a girl knowing she has five other dates lined up after me. If I do make that connection with a girl on the first date, then it would bother me knowing that she has another date lined up. I have been hurt this way before. I don't want to be invested emotionally with a girl that is still looking elsewhere. I don't know if this guy has the same problem or not.
Ohh... I see. Makes sense. He is probably a really good guy and serious about wanting to make a connection. Unfortunately, I've run into too many that like to have 100 girls "just in case". I kinda started acting like that too as a result. BTW, we're still on for our date.
I hope every thing works out for both of you.
Now I'm scared to go back online until at least after the date and only if it doesn't go well.
Thanks for making it make sense and thanks for your well wishes. :)