Being young and beautiful has nothing to do with the best time to look for a partner. In fact, when you ate older know what you want and need and are more mature to chose properly.
@PatriceONeal if you think all 30 year olds are ugly you haven't been paying much attention. And yes, being older and wiser will obviously help you make better decisions. Not to say it's mandatory, nothing against getting a serious relationship early. But nothing wrong with wanting one later in life either. This is for both men and women.
It is the same though. Guys get old and so do women. But what a 30 yr. old wants isn't going to be the same as a 20 yr. old because they're much younger and will still be figuring things out. A 30 yr. old is more mature and will know what she wants more of in life. Plus, I've heard that your 30s are better than your 20s.
People who are serious daters don’t date that long so why are you women wasting your best years horsing around guaranteeing that you’ll still be dating well into retirement age
Are you a real woman? Because I don’t need you to tell me anything about men because I already know I’m asking REAL women to tell me about REAL female behavior
Dating is only something we recently started doingng around the 69s. This is a new experiment that clearly doesn't work. Women are terrible at making decisions especially hard life effecting ones. Which is why fathers usually chose the husband.
Dear Melanie. Lmao girlll no you can't. If you could, you wouldn't see so many women and Karen's crying about men in their cars on tiktok at the age of 30+. Get really upset and say I must hate women. That should fix it.
@painusndeeanus Bruv, it's not her fault she lives in a man's world. She fancies to shag with random guys; of course, there will be consequences. But she is only a human.
They don’t. They’d like a good relationship but guys who’re available for that are few and far between so they figure they can only count on a clearer and pursue something worthwhile for themselves that way instead.
Just ready the opinions on this site, can’t stop laughing at so many of the males here trying to man’s plain and get it SO wrong! 🤣 Is it any wonder they’re bitter and completely off the mark, these will be the same ones who don’t or struggle to actually date. They still can’t grasp that the solution is actually listening to the person making those choices 🤦🏼♀️🤣 (appears to just be no hope for some).
current dating and marriage statistics contradict that @MzAsh, at least as far as the north American continent is concerned. its something around 60% of women hitting their 30s can no longer find a husband.
@magiusX26 also statistically speaking single women are happier than married women. They are healthier, live longer, have better mental health, etc. The opposite happens in men.
This is sad for us. Men are not taught today to be alone. We are being taught the same things out parents were and that is not how society and dating works anymore.
@opinion8 a lot of the men's side of those you listed are likely due to the added stress and anxiety many guys are feeling due to not getting dates. as for tge wimen's side, that is likely due to less stress from less child baring as well as less health damage from giving birth. seeing as the birth rates are dropping due to this as well.
@magiusX26 our value as men shouldn't be dictated by how many dates we have. Sadly that pressure from society is prevalent. Same thing regarding women, but today they have lots of outlets telling them they can drop traditional roles and be happy.
Its because the prody frat boys with sex driven egos manage to destroy a girls trust. I will completely understand if a 20-30 year old tells me to F**K off.
But a lot of people, women included, want to spent time having fun, exploring the world, developing a career, or whatever, before they commit to someone.
If we let things be we would still be living in caves people who don’t care are erased from history saying you don’t care is like saying the current state of our society is just fine
How does it affect me? WHERE DO BABIES COME FROM? It affects all of mankind if women wait till they are geriatric to have serious relationships and a family
It’s called Reproductive stage for a reason it doesn’t last long for women their 20s is the best time to have a family and settle down
Ask any woman on any dating app dating in their 30s and 40s is much harder because the majority of men GLOBALLY want women in the age range of 18 to 24
its been proven that kids who marry too early in life tend to end up getting divorced later on. The people who are older and financially stable when they get married tend to have the longest lasting marriages.
In the eyes of an older experienced adult, a very very young person with absolutely no life experience is a kid. And their lack of brain development and lack of experience is why they tend to pick the wrong spouses and end up divorcing later in life.
someone like you who thinks women are only worth it when they are young and beautiful will never have a marriage that lasts. Once your wife loses her looks, you will be turning heads for a woman 50 years younger.
I'm looking for a man I can trust that will stay faithful to me for the rest of my life. If looks are the number 1 thing that you're looking for a in a woman, I know it'll be a matter of time before the marriage collapses.
I don't date men who only date girls in their 20s. Its one of the biggest red flags of an indecent man. If you're no longer attracted to me once I hit 30, why would you stay the rest of your life with a woman you're not attracted to? I don't know how that is going to work.
lets be honest right here. someone like you will never be able to hold on to a forever marriage.
I've known a woman who married a man 15 years older. By the time she hit 45, had 3 kids with him, he ended up cheating on her with her hot best friend (extremely attractive woman in her 40s). He ended up having a kid with her best friend. She helped babysit this kid for 10 years before she found out that he had cheated. She had a heart attack and kicked him out of the house for a year. He was homeless for a year when he came knocking on their door asking for some warm soup to warm up. His kids didn't ahve the heart to shut the door on him so they let him in. The mother relented understanding that he was still the children's father so she let him back in the house to live with her for the remaining 12 years of her life before died of cardiac arrest.
Less than a year after she died, he (in his 60s) married a 22-year-old woman with 8 kids from Puerto Rico. She was desperate for US green card and marriage was going to help her legally emigrate to the us. The marriage was not made of love but for money, assets and green card. He was 80 years old while she was still in her 40s. She had a boyfriend who was also in his 40s.
This is the type of guy that you are. But not all men are perverts like this one.
But I’m pretty sure that you had an ambition and hope and dream before all that. Other certain things you wanted to accomplish or if you don’t become a wife, you want to make sure that you’re financially straight as well because it doesn’t happen for everybody and you can’t always be like oh yeah, I’m a date this this person , potentially going to be OK
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This question makes no sense.
Being young and beautiful has nothing to do with the best time to look for a partner. In fact, when you ate older know what you want and need and are more mature to chose properly.
I stopped reading after this question makes no sense because you clearly didn’t understand
I can explain or you could read it slowly your move
Yes of course wait until you're old an ugly. That'll give you the best advantage 🤡
@PatriceONeal if you think all 30 year olds are ugly you haven't been paying much attention. And yes, being older and wiser will obviously help you make better decisions.
Not to say it's mandatory, nothing against getting a serious relationship early. But nothing wrong with wanting one later in life either.
This is for both men and women.
@painusndeeanus I understood what the question was. That's why I said it makes no sense.
It's the begging the question fallacy. You are asking a question already assuming a premise.
In this case, you are asking why they wait assuming that waiting is worse.
What dating advice would you give your daughter?
Be safe and have fun.
No really. As long as she does things with responsibility and safety what do I care about what she does on her dating life?
Reading comprehension at a special needs level.
So wHaT you're SaYiNg iS
Yes, because then, they don't have to worry about a one night stand with a guy with a 2" penis thinking he is a stud.
Big dongs hurt girls you need to do foreplay if you think you aren’t big enough
Because it's like anything else in life: Growing and maturing. The same goes for guys.
No why do women waste their best years? That’s actually pretty funny
It’s not the same for guys we increase get better with age
As a woman you are already born with everything you need to live your best life and you waste it
It is the same though. Guys get old and so do women. But what a 30 yr. old wants isn't going to be the same as a 20 yr. old because they're much younger and will still be figuring things out. A 30 yr. old is more mature and will know what she wants more of in life. Plus, I've heard that your 30s are better than your 20s.
20 yr old is better than 30 yr old. Less attitude, baggage, entitlement, wrinkles, kids, debt, ideologies.
@PatriceONeal facts💯
@PatriceONeal I was 20 once, and it's not as great. 21+ is much better though.
We are talking about sex and men’s desires in this context 20 is better
so then not dating.
No not what women call dating
What women call dating is just hooking up for men
I don't know about that lol most women date actively through their young and older lives
People who are serious daters don’t date that long so why are you women wasting your best years horsing around guaranteeing that you’ll still be dating well into retirement age
Lmao cause we can
Could’ve just said you don’t know
Men can too but a lot of guys decide to sit and be mad, so yeah
Are you a real woman? Because I don’t need you to tell me anything about men because I already know I’m asking REAL women to tell me about REAL female behavior
Dating is only something we recently started doingng around the 69s. This is a new experiment that clearly doesn't work. Women are terrible at making decisions especially hard life effecting ones. Which is why fathers usually chose the husband.
Dear Melanie. Lmao girlll no you can't. If you could, you wouldn't see so many women and Karen's crying about men in their cars on tiktok at the age of 30+. Get really upset and say I must hate women. That should fix it.
@painusndeeanus Bruv, it's not her fault she lives in a man's world. She fancies to shag with random guys; of course, there will be consequences. But she is only a human.
They don’t. They’d like a good relationship but guys who’re available for that are few and far between so they figure they can only count on a clearer and pursue something worthwhile for themselves that way instead.
*career
Just ready the opinions on this site, can’t stop laughing at so many of the males here trying to man’s plain and get it SO wrong! 🤣 Is it any wonder they’re bitter and completely off the mark, these will be the same ones who don’t or struggle to actually date.
They still can’t grasp that the solution is actually listening to the person making those choices 🤦🏼♀️🤣 (appears to just be no hope for some).
The solution is going to countries with more feminine women who respect men
Passport bros2023💯
Lmao let me know how that turns out. I already know that answer.
because it's apparently "cool" for them to extend their adolescence yet society tells us women mature faster than men SMH
Because they can. Plenty of men will happy to wife them up in their 30s.
You shouldn’t still be dating and trying to get married in your 30s that’s geriatric territory
@PainusNdeeAnus You sound very abusive
@Sasha0426 I apologize for that
@PainusNdeeAnus You’re not sorry
You can get married any age you want.
Who said you couldn’t?
current dating and marriage statistics contradict that @MzAsh, at least as far as the north American continent is concerned. its something around 60% of women hitting their 30s can no longer find a husband.
@PainusNdeeAnus You did, you dumb fuck 🙄
They absolutely can. Many don’t know how. And many others don’t want a husband.
@magiusX26 that is false. 30 is literally the average age women have children today. There is that.
@magiusX26 also statistically speaking single women are happier than married women. They are healthier, live longer, have better mental health, etc. The opposite happens in men.
This is sad for us. Men are not taught today to be alone. We are being taught the same things out parents were and that is not how society and dating works anymore.
@opinion8 a lot of the men's side of those you listed are likely due to the added stress and anxiety many guys are feeling due to not getting dates. as for tge wimen's side, that is likely due to less stress from less child baring as well as less health damage from giving birth. seeing as the birth rates are dropping due to this as well.
@magiusX26 our value as men shouldn't be dictated by how many dates we have. Sadly that pressure from society is prevalent.
Same thing regarding women, but today they have lots of outlets telling them they can drop traditional roles and be happy.
I have resources that suggest married men are healthier and live longer as well.
I sat two seats away from that guy who broke into Lana del Reys house in community college. World studies. He usually came in high and reeked of pot.
Because when they are young they have the pick of the lot then when they are older they have to settle down
Its because the prody frat boys with sex driven egos manage to destroy a girls trust. I will completely understand if a 20-30 year old tells me to F**K off.
I’m how exactly?
Because the law forbids and the society pretends teens dont need sex, there's all a big grand scheme to prevent people from reproducing in general.
Have no idea who that is.
But a lot of people, women included, want to spent time having fun, exploring the world, developing a career, or whatever, before they commit to someone.
Because when they are young and beautiful they are busy fucking as many men as they can.
Where is your factual data to back up this claim of yours?
Are there a bunch of men in their 30s and 40s crying about dating and posting it online?
I see them on here. Incles crying like little b*&%$
That’s a small group of men most of the people complaining and crying about dating in their 30s and 40s are women
Then it let be. I don't give a damn. Let people live their lives.
If we let things be we would still be living in caves people who don’t care are erased from history saying you don’t care is like saying the current state of our society is just fine
How the hell it affects you or anyone when and at what age someone decides to date seriously?
And you're focusing on pretty women too. You wouldn't give a damn if the woman was ugly.
No I’m focusing on youth! Fertility!
How does it affect me? WHERE DO BABIES COME FROM? It affects all of mankind if women wait till they are geriatric to have serious relationships and a family
It’s called Reproductive stage for a reason it doesn’t last long for women their 20s is the best time to have a family and settle down
Ask any woman on any dating app dating in their 30s and 40s is much harder because the majority of men GLOBALLY want women in the age range of 18 to 24
Many of them think that having a good carreer is more important than having a good husband.
“ Why not just commit to being a mother instead of being a half shitty lawyer and a half shitty mom” -Tristian Tate
No comment ;-)
I'm dating seriously, my brother👉😎👉
As you should “BE PICKY EXTREMELY PICKY “ - Jordan Peterson
its been proven that kids who marry too early in life tend to end up getting divorced later on. The people who are older and financially stable when they get married tend to have the longest lasting marriages.
Kids can’t get married
In the eyes of an older experienced adult, a very very young person with absolutely no life experience is a kid. And their lack of brain development and lack of experience is why they tend to pick the wrong spouses and end up divorcing later in life.
Don’t blame brain development on a persons poor life choices
so why do people who marry too early in life tend to divorce more than people who marry at older ages?
Again poor life choices it’s not a matter of age but the person’s character
I'm pretty sure you made dumber decisions when you're immature , impulsive and inexperienced.
would you prefer to marry young and end up divorced mid life or marry later and have a marriage that actually lasts?
I would rather build a life with someone from scratch and form a bond that will last till death do us part
marriage is a lifestyle
@painusndeeanus
someone like you who thinks women are only worth it when they are young and beautiful will never have a marriage that lasts. Once your wife loses her looks, you will be turning heads for a woman 50 years younger.
You just showed how little you know about men and our nature
Not all men think women expire by 30. There are plenty of men who has more important priorities than looks. You dont represent all men.
I'm looking for a man I can trust that will stay faithful to me for the rest of my life. If looks are the number 1 thing that you're looking for a in a woman, I know it'll be a matter of time before the marriage collapses.
You’re still in your 20s you’ve got time
I don't date men who only date girls in their 20s. Its one of the biggest red flags of an indecent man. If you're no longer attracted to me once I hit 30, why would you stay the rest of your life with a woman you're not attracted to? I don't know how that is going to work.
Congratulations now go find him and stop speaking badly about people who don’t agree with you
Because an actual good woman wouldn’t worry about aging because she knows her man and how to please and serve him
do you think I'm that stupid? why would you spend the rest of your life with a woman that you wouldn't be attracted to in 5 years? you tell me. haha
[Because an actual good woman wouldn’t worry about aging because she knows her man and how to please and serve him]
a woman can't please you unless she looks like she is in her 20s. thats the problem.
Do you know what men want?
you're a pervert. you don't represent all men.
i know what you want. but you dont know what all men want.
So you don’t know, got it.😂
lets be honest right here. someone like you will never be able to hold on to a forever marriage.
I've known a woman who married a man 15 years older. By the time she hit 45, had 3 kids with him, he ended up cheating on her with her hot best friend (extremely attractive woman in her 40s). He ended up having a kid with her best friend. She helped babysit this kid for 10 years before she found out that he had cheated. She had a heart attack and kicked him out of the house for a year. He was homeless for a year when he came knocking on their door asking for some warm soup to warm up. His kids didn't ahve the heart to shut the door on him so they let him in. The mother relented understanding that he was still the children's father so she let him back in the house to live with her for the remaining 12 years of her life before died of cardiac arrest.
Less than a year after she died, he (in his 60s) married a 22-year-old woman with 8 kids from Puerto Rico. She was desperate for US green card and marriage was going to help her legally emigrate to the us. The marriage was not made of love but for money, assets and green card. He was 80 years old while she was still in her 40s. She had a boyfriend who was also in his 40s.
This is the type of guy that you are. But not all men are perverts like this one.
When looks are your number 1 priority, this is what happens.
Its easy to say that you can hold onto a forever marriage, until you find yourself married to someone you're completely not attracted to.
What’s my middle name?
Blood type?
What’s my favorite color?
you won't make a decent husband. and its only a matter of time the girl who marries you finds out she made a huge mistake.
What’s my favorite food?
Favorite sports team?
What’s my favorite dog breed?
how many porn videos do you have at home?
Zero I have three bookshelves not enough room for porn
Im pretty sure you have loads of porn: all teenage girls.
Perverts dont make good husbands.
Im not looking for a man who just loves me due to my looks. Im looking for a man who can love me even when im old and wrinkled.
Because they have to make sure they’re straight before they mesh there life with someone else
The purpose of marriage is to build a family and a lifestyle from an early age
But I’m pretty sure that you had an ambition and hope and dream before all that. Other certain things you wanted to accomplish or if you don’t become a wife, you want to make sure that you’re financially straight as well because it doesn’t happen for everybody and you can’t always be like oh yeah, I’m a date this this person , potentially going to be OK
No I want to make sure I have children to carry on my legacy the happiest long-standing marriages were between people who were dirt poor
That is a very good question.
Until they finally caught on & realized that men like variety... 😊👍