For girls that want guys to make the first move and pay on dates: what do you offer the guy in return? (Page 2)
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I only dated decent guys so I wouldn’t know how to answer a question like this from guys like you.
I feel like they shouldn't need to offer anything. If they feel a connection with the fella then whatever happens happens. Honestly the best results of the date I think is getting a second date and then hopefully eventually a relationship.
The potential for sex. Keep in mind it is not always fun/ pleasant for us, sometimes it just hurts, and unlike men we have 0 guarantee of an orgasm, in fact many times we go home frustrated... and if we DO get ours, it can be uncomfortable while you continue to do your thing in us during the refractory period.
so basically a hooker
When you boil it down, that's what daying/ marriage is... historically there was no dating, marriage was a transaction where a man would essentially sell off his daughters to men easily twice their age, and sex was NOT optional, so yes, traditionally marriage was the purchase of a hooker, or more specifically the purchase of a sex slave... today isn't much different, we have something you want, you have something we want, it's a transaction.
but women want to be treated equal, a hooker is not equal. you don't get to ask for equality and then not act equal.
Neither is it always fun and pleasant for men lol. Women think that putting lingerie or being good looking means they are good at bed.
Lol u caused someone to have a mental break down in here over this question bro, some people just need to stay outta there feelings hahaha
An interview with a potential spouse. As that is the whole point of going on a date anyway.
Fyi, I'm a traditional housewife. For someone who seems to glorify traditional gender roles for women, you sure do sound like an average whiney modern male.
that doesn't even make any sense
That's a problem to take up with your school.
you're not even a part of the conversation anymore, you're just saying random words
I can easily see how a poorly educated person would think that.
@John_Doesnt
Sounds like someone is mad about womens freedom. You like em locked up in the kitchen
@LazerBean For women he's asking what's in it for me.
@John_Doesnt I'm assuming this question is rhetorical. Outside of sex women really don't provide much to me. They can't fight, aren't good at deductive reasoning and can have u being forced to defend them because of their actions. W/ that said as a man that's why you
Coffee Dates 1st date - If she won't go then you've weeded out a loser. If she does then it's a small investment to create an opportunity for sex to happen.
I'm aware, you two are the only ones who are having trouble with comprehension.
@Vegasrunner it's actually not rhetorical. I keep seeing these women who want to be "treated equal" but at the same time still think men should pay for the date. So I'm asking what they do in return to deserve that equality. Do they cook? Do they clean? Back massage?
@LazerBean
Get out the kitchen and do something with your life hoe!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Housewives hits walls faster than they can clean it!!!
💋
Sorry I need to put down the soju. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lol you have a pound of make up on your face, talking about hitting walls is some serious friendly fire. Also not really logical. And I could put my degree to use, sure, but it's a lot easier for us to spend time with eachother vacation on a whim when only one of us is working.
Actually speaking of degree, that gives me a new Idea for my next question. 😃
Awesome, tag me in it 😉
Tagged ya 💋
@John_Doesnt
women repay you by sex. Modern men are whores who expect women to put out by a certain date
Hahahaha, ya man.
"Hahahaha, ya man*
Is my reaction to the picture you posted John
Housewife? 🤣
Girl, you are just 23 and your life has not even started yet, and you use the term "gender" instead of "sex" 🤦🏻♂️
You are not even a woman yet lol
Lol ok boy.
@LazerBean Accusing everyone else of being the problem is a standard position taken by those who are unable to articulate their POV. In fact no where in your response have you answered his question, instead using immature phrases to throw an emotional tantrum.
@John_Doesnt The fact that they can't provide you w/ a straight answer should give you the answer. Outside of access to a vagina women provide no real value to a man. It may be difficult for them to hear but as a young man should learn this ASAP. Woman don't want "equality" they want an advantage if they wanted equality then why don't we have femal rights groups advocating for the ban of ladies nights and free club entries? If overnight there was a law that forbid having sex w/ women, do u honestly believe any man would spend time or resources taking them out on dates?
I didn't accuse everyone else here of being the problem. I actually specifically said that you two are the ONLY people who don't know what's going on. And also answer the question. Life must be so hard for you, considering your laughably poor reading comprehension.
@Haha456 I hope that you will get beat up by 10 niggas in the middle of the night in a dark alley.
@LazerBean Doubling down on ridiculous statements is only a reflection of you. You're claim that "We don't know what's going on" Sounds even more foolish considering you're saying that to the original asker. His question is pretty straightforward, yet perhaps because of limited social, skills and poor emotional control you're unable to articulate an intelligent answer. TY for being so concerned about my life, however based on the fact that you're making that statement on an anonymous forum, it logical to conclude its more a reflection of your own life struggles than anything else.
If you say that enough times, maybe one day you'll believe yourself.
Which is why you should never buy more than coffee for a woman you aren't sleeping with.
@EmmyWolf Lol loser you had to settle for a beta with kids
Women repay by being expected to put out by the 3rd date. Or sometimes thr first date. We pay by sex
how is that different from a prostitute?
Most men would sleep with prostitutes if it were legal
@haha456 Agreed. Part of the reason why prostitution isn't legal is because if it was women would have little or no value in society.
@Vegasrunner
You just saying that cuz you can't get any women.
prostitutes are legal in most countries and it's not a good thing to be a hooker
@John_Doesnt
if rape was legal, most men would probably rape. If prostitution was legal, most men would visit prostitutes.
@John_Doesnt yet you're whining 🙄 what do women bring to the date. Hmm. Did you forget to take your medicine 💊 .
So if you don't want sex or women to act like a prostitute what do you want? No body except someone mentally deranged is going to have a complete stranger in their house to cook or clean for them
Why you complain about it? Shut your mouth and enjoy it.
@haha456 Lol, I'm sure that would be a great point if I didn't currently have one fly in from another country just to spend two nights w/ me. But please keep using that as your comeback. I'll be sure to keep that in mind while I'm deep inside her.
Hahahahaha you’re dumb
not one girl has answered the question
Because it’s not a valid question. You’re upset about something and lashing out. A woman doesn’t owe a man anything In Return. Perhaps a second date but surely doesn’t owe him anything that is degrading.
it is a very valid question: every woman has been posting about how important it is for guys to pay on a date so I'm asking what girls do in return to make it equal. You're just not understanding the basics of "equality".
He did not lash out but you did. Seems like men stoping being simp make you uncomfortable.
You men are garbage 🗑️
These men have no father. Don’t even bother. The only thing they’re having sex with , is their sweaty hand.
And maybe another man’s mouth 🤣🤣
@John_Doesnt
Men also don't owe women anything. So why should they pay on dates?
@_piotr
Because you’re tying to impress them.
ARE YOU A FEMALE?
ARE YOU GAY?
YOU A F—GT?
You don’t have to buy anyone shT. Someone else will do it instead and win her over 🖕🖕🖕
https://youtu.be/fMv-XYvwrT8
@EmyyWolf If someone else will do it then good. I do not need such women in my life. Sorry, but I am egalitarian. I refuse to get down on my knees before you, just because you are women. Women are not gods!
They offer NOTHING.
Guys will make the first move. That's my opinion
Women don't owe men anything.
I know right! These are manosphere leaches.
XXX leaches. They know nothing outside of P—RN.
They’re always in a feminine state because of how much they bust nuts on top of themselves.
They have no father.
These Godforsaken men lost themselves.
I’d recommend they go outside to the sun, and lift every single day but they rather sit back and suck on their XXX pacifiers.
These men are competing with females and envious of females and their natural game. What they really want is to suck some CK.
Men also don't owe women anything. So why should they pay on dates?
I hope you a car will hit you on new moon and that you will die because of that you fucking bitch. If killing stupid and evil people would be legal, I would kill you immediately.
@_piotr Women owe us a lot!