Guys, would you date and give a girl with 4 children a chance? (Page 2)
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As long as we have a lockable soundproof bedroom and she likes cunnilingus, I don't see why not. Let love be your energy.
You can get sex but I think you will have a hard time finding someone who wants to settle with a woman with four kids, at least until they left the nest and both of you are old enough too have the family chapter behind you.
Possibly, but it would depend on her relationship with the biological father of her children.
Well I’m 21 so I wouldn’t date a 30 year old but I’d date a 23 year old with 2 kids.
WoW, how desperate should be a man if he take woman with 4 children that is also barren.
Dang. She deserves love too.
I don't think so, she failed to keep the man that impregnated her, it's not my problem.
@Asker not really she doesn't
It makes you wonder what sort of guys she went with during her prime
Lol at that barren comment
sure she may have deserved love at one point, but then it's "why didn't she seek actual love way back before letting 1 or more of the wrong guys father children in her?"
Does it make you guys feel more as men to make a woman feel less about herself? It was a simple question that didn’t need all this verbal abuse. And just because I fell in love with a man who I thought I was going to be with my whole life.. who ended up being a narcissistic and didn’t see it until I found out he was cheating because he was a boy portraying as a real man and a coward doesn’t mean I’m not still in my prime and doesn’t mean I don’t still deserve love. I’m sorry I didn’t have a father in my life to show me what real healthy love is suppose to look like from a man who “claims” he loves you and wouldn’t do anything to hurt you. I can just imagine how you “men” treat your woman.
@Asker there is no need to rant and it would not matter if you had a father or not. You are just looking for someone to blame for your mistakes
@asker, no, biology says you are past your prime. and it was not verbal abuse but cold hard facts and truth.
@asker, as for how i treat "my woman". i used to treat them very well till they all treated me like shit. knowing the damage they done, irreaprable, i no longer will even lay with one because i know eventually i'll turn toxic. oh and the bit about your father could possibly be a sort of repeat of the previoys facts and truths about previous generations of your family. however am happy to hear your children all have the same father and its from an actual try at lasting relationship. am not saying you dont deserve some kind of love, but to expect much of a chance at it now is going to be closer to impossible. i do wish you luck in that.
@DarkLegacy, I’m not trying to blame anyone. You guys want to comment irrelevant comments that have nothing to do with the question. I’m not expecting nothing from no man. Just funny how I’m the one who failed to “keep” the father of my children and say why I didn’t seek “actual” love because people show their true selves and intentions from the beginning. I didn’t want to keep them but they sure wanted to be kept, but I knew that they were no good for me or my children. Just crazy how I ask a simple question if you would give a woman with 4 kids a chance or not and you all want to try to comment irrelevant comments about how I couldn’t keep the man or didn’t seek real love because I wanted to end up with 4 children and treated like crap from a man I gave my all too but it’s my fault. Good to know. I wasn’t shown what a real healthy man should be and I apparently have too much of a big heart. See the good in people until they want to burn me for selfish reasons they never healed from. I trusted and got fucked over because men have mommy issues and end up taking it out on the women who was always down for them.
Sure. I’m with a woman with a few kids. We’re a great match and I’m happy with her.
Several kids isn't a turnoff for me if they all have the same father. Four kids by four men and I'd pass.
What about two men?
Hard to tell, but probably not. That would mean having the responsibility for a whole family, but never have any say on it. Those are your kids, and the father's kids. I wouldn't have a say in their education, or discipline or anything.
At my age no. I don't want 4 children who aren't mine to support. If they have different fathers then it is far more emphatic NO.
Maybe if she is a faithful widow with all the children from the same man and he is also widowed with children. Otherwise, it might be a hard time finding someone willing to take that on.