I was dating a man for a month when all of sudden he started acting strange and distance. When I questioned him about it he said I was being toxic and manipulative and I needed to heal so he was dumping me. It was super extreme. Anyway a few hours after he dumped me he gave a female my number and she texted me telling I was desperate and I needed to stop calling him and begging to be with him. I admit when he first dumped me I was shocked and I did beg and plead for a bit but it didn’t last past a day. I just had a strong reaction to the whole situation. Anyway during our dating time he was treating me and my daughter special buying gifts and coming to spend quality time with me so naturally suddenly being dumped and finding out another woman was in the picture was crushing for me and it’s been two weeks and I’m still hurt. What could be a mama motive for telling you you’re the one then suddenly dumped one you and sending a female on you? I’m so confused.
I'd have to hear his side of the story to know for sure, but from the looks of it, it seems like you were doing things that made him see you differently.
He also could've been seeing this woman on the side, which could lead him to think your behavior was worse than it was. Especially if that woman is sitting there telling him he deserves better.
Move on from this guy, but also evaluate yourself and figure out what you might've done to make him so angry with you. I know that's hard to hear, but we all have to learn from our mistakes.
He could just be a manipulative cheating asshole, but there's usually more to it than that. I don't think he had a motive
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Yea one time I had a very strong urge to run the car into the wall on the highway and I had to literally fight the urges, it was like a compulsion, I'm not suicidal tho, it's when I knew I was being attacked by a spirit of suicide
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What is being toxic in relationship because the meaning of it in chemistry and biology can be used here right?
His motive was to make her jelly so that she would desire him
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