Ever since I dated this tennis player with a six pack, big arm muscles, and a sexy chest, I've found it hard to be overwhelmingly attracted to guys who don't have really nice bodies. Now before, I never put so much emphasis on a guy with muscles and a six pack. I would date and be extremely attracted to a guy even if he was chubby or a little short. But to be honest, now it just really is hard to get really excited about a guy PHYSICALLY after dating someone so hot! This doesn't mean I won't give guys who don't have a six pack and muscles a chance! I would still date him and I could still love him. If I met someone who was so amazing and I fell in love with him, I'd accept him no matter what he lacked physically. I'm just being honest here! Keeping it real 100%, I kinda feel like I have to get my share of hot, muscular guys before I start dating chubby guys with flabs who aren't all that cute. Is that terrible?
What do you think?
Have you ever dated someone who was really hot then found it hard to be attracted to people who weren't as hot or hotter? Share stories and expeirences :D
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Well bodies didn't mean much to me to begin with because I don't believe lust should be mistaken for love, though there needs to be some sort of attraction before one can fall in love. I believe if I'm looking for a long term relationship that I find beautiful/gorgeous facial features are important, but her personality must be good as well. (Sweet, kind,caring, mature, intelligent,etc.) That kind of thing is important to me, the body is able to be changed or altered at any given moment. So I believe I rather focus on face, and personality first, I rarely care about their ass, breasts, hips or w.e when I'm in love. If I was thinking about their body from the get go, then I was mainly in it for sex or etc. I have dated mainly average weight women, Normal features and etc, then I have dated one or two women that were bigger then me. In my opinion, no one was better then the other, whether attraction,physical, or relationship wise. Though some of the girls who were bigger weren't shallow because they aren't high on self esteem and have their head up their ass. I used to be chubby/fat, so I know what its like to be looked down upon, but really, love isn't about physical features, its about an iron connection from one persons heart to another.1
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