I'm talking about 20 years older. In my situation he's divorced and has two kids that are half of my age (so maybe its not that bad). What are your thoughts?
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Think about the life style change it would bring to your life. Are you ready to be a step mom and deal with any baggage he might carry from the divorce, including financial issues it might have brought? If the answer is yes, than I don`t see why age should be an issue. It`s mostly the stages in life that could bring difficulties if your not on the same level.
You must also realize that if you chose to take this path in life, you won`t get to experience the excitement of being newly wed`s for the first time together, being parents for first time together, etc. Would you feel like you are missing out on important experiences together? Or would you feel content with the fact that he has already been through the experience and you will never be able to? It`s all about what you want in life for yourself.0