I'm kind of unsure after the second date I had with this girl I really like.
First date: We live 40 miles apart. I took the train and met up with her at starbucks.We talked for 2 and a half hours and it was great!
I message her two days later expressing the fact that I had a good time. She replied and said that "it was really great spending time together". I arranged the date this time in my city, 4 days later.
Second date: She arrives. I go to the train station after her. A couple minutes late. I tell her that we might meet another couple (friend +gf) after dinner for drinks. MY friend calls me and I --stupidly(?)--ask him to join us. I ask the girl if she's ok and she says no problem. We went to a CHIC italian restaurant and I covered everything.However, my friend is very outspoken and is the type that has "drunk stories from different countries" and he practically had the microphone in his hand for 80% of the time. Nonetheless, my girl laughed and after being asked later, she found him to be "quite interesting".
We say bye to the couple and I take the girl to the train station. I ask her to msg me when she gets home. An hours later she does and says "hope to see you soon and good night".
I called her the next day (today) at 6 pm and another time at 7 pm. No response.
Im usually very confident and a "playa" as some would say, but I'm kinda going paranoid because I REALLY don't wanna mess this one up. She's BEAUTIFUL, half French, half German. VERY polite and wealthy. Please give me input. What should I do next?
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I would wait a couple of days. Don't keep texting or you will look desperate. When you know a good day that you can go see her, text her and say something like, "I am coming your way, let's do dinner and a movie" or something whatever you want to do. If you still don't get a response, you will probably have to let it go. IF that becomes the case, after a couple of months or so you can try one more time, and if you still don't get a response, you know def she is not interested. Saying she hopes to see you soon is not something someone would say if they did not want to see you again. If I am out on a date and I know I don't want to see the person again, I simply just say thank you, I had a nice night or whatever, but NEVER hope to see you soon. I certainly would not want to encourage someone if I don't want to see them again.2