My mom keeps bugging me and saying, "You should go out with all sorts of guys and have fun!"
But I just can't see myself going out on several first dates with random people all in the same relative period of time. I know I'm not the only one who can only focus on one potential date at a time...but how many are out there?
I'm not saying either way is good or bad...they just are. But which are you? Do you only date one person at a time until you know that they're either relationship material or not...or do you go out with lots of people until you happen upon one that lights the spark?
- One At A Time!Vote A
- Multiple People!Vote B
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I'm always a one person kind of girl, and it's not a conscious decision, it's just how I operate. I can't be happy in a non-monogamous relationship, seeing other people and threesomes are out of the question. When it comes to dating/getting to know each other, I can only focus on one person at a time because the way my mind works, I only LIKE one person at a time and don't really have eyes for anyone else. Even with casual [safe] sex, I only mess around with one person at a time, I don't switch back and forth between multiple partners. Once I start sleeping with a new person, I'm not sleeping with anyone else. The only exception I have to that is if I were to consider a threesome, which I could only do if the partners were casual. If there were feelings involved, I couldn't do it because I don't share, lol.0