I met this awesome guy at college and we seemed to hit it off well when we first met. We were pretty flirty right at first but as we kept getting to know each other that sort of died down. I really like him and have taken chances to hang out with him. I also tested breaking the touch barrier and he didn't get uncomfortable or move away, but he may just be confortable as friends. We have known each other for almost 3 weeks now and the closest we got was when I stayed the night in his bed after reading scary stories until late that night. We didn't do anything sexual, we Haven't held hands or kissed yet. We do hug when we see each other and today he finally gave me a hug with both arms instead of one of those one armed hugs that don't feel as good. Any help in smoothly and not awkwardly moving towards dating him would be very much appreciated!
How to go from friends to dating?
What Guys Said 1
i bet he also feels the same and is inhibited/nervous to make it more than friends. That's why you guys were flirty at first and now it died down a bit. See many female male "friends" have this problem; they have a friendship but like each other, and they won't make a move or anything cause of their friendship and then end up hanging out together in this awkward way where everyone but them can see they want each other.0
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What Girls Said 1
Ask him out1
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