After so many failed attempts and embarrassing moments with females, I've given up. I've been single now for 15 years. Since then I've gotten lonely sometimes to the point where I would try to talk to women. But it always ended up horrible with them insulting me or screwing me over in some way. Then when you stand up for yourself and call them out for being an asshole they always turn you into the bad guy. How dare you every speak poorly of a woman. I really hate the fact that women and I can't get along. Since my last family member died last year, I have no one left to talk to. All of my male friends have married and are starting families. I talk to none of them now. Meeting new people seems to be impossible at my age. Most seem to be drunks or druggies, if you go to a book store or library they act as if you are trying to rob them. I would just like to know what is wrong with me. Why was it so much easier for my friends to get married and hang on to their families while I've lost everything and there is no way of getting it back?
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i'm so sorry to hear about your family, as for your problem, you have to understand that life does not always throw your favorite "candy" at you for free. there will be the roughs, the tough and the softs. you just need to know how to work your way through the hard stages.
i can guarantee you that the right woman will come by soon. just hang in there.
it may comfort you to know that somepeople have this great "get alone with everyone" gift while some have to work their way to get having that gift. that's just how life is.
and there is nothing wrong with you... cheer up :)
you should try changing something you do that you always do to repel the girls. try something new.
and talk to your married friends. if they are real friends, the will understand. and they are the best people to talk to because the got their wives, and they know how to keep them. asking for tips will not take anything from you. just try it, I'm sure you will get something to help you.
please do not stop trying. and don't turn gay either.0