Honestly I can't stand dating a woman who's constantly chatting with an ex. And Facebook makes it worse. Why is it so hard to just stop chatting with an ex? Its a clear obvious sign he is still trying to get some and its f***ing rude to the new guy your dating. Sorry but if your ex is calling you after 9pm to "chat" then he is up to something.
No1 should have to deal with that while they are dating. and you can't be "Friends" if you already had sex. That entire argument is over. Once you have "feelings" for someone they are no longer your friend.
what is it that keeps you in touch? Still have feelings? Is he one of your backups? No wonder why people can't stop cheating in America, no1 can just let go.
- I don't communicate with Ex'sVote A
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I never keep in touch with ex's. And never will. No reason to cloud your judgement by keeping around half of a failed relationship. Or even worse, ruining your current situation by keeping at ex at arms length as a back up. I saw a really good friend of mine ruin a great relationship with her boyfriend by refusing to stop talking to an ex she claim was "just a friend."
They got back together after her relationship failed, he knocked her up, then left, and now she's a single parent and has been for the past 3 years.2