I get it those are two extremes. None of them is ideal. But, who of those two is better partner? Why? How do you find one or another?
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If a guy is holding back on who he is, how can you claim to like him?
If you mean a *modest* guy (as opposed to a guy who likes to brag about every single thing), then yes, that guy is better. If you're talking about an overly secretive sort of fellow, though, that's asking for trouble.
A blabber mouth is no good either, because then everyone knows your business.0