or when you barely meet? my best friend and I always argue about this. she's really pretty so she's always getting hit on, dating guys when she barely meets them. she says that it doesn't mean anything though. but she barely knows them, she's going for them pretty much cause they're attractive
i like to start out friendships cause you need to feel comfortable with a person before you date them you know? what do you guys think?
she says she's taking it like whatever, but I don't think he is..
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Dates are a way to get to know people that you wouldn't have any other way to get to know. They really are no big deal. You limit yourself a lot when you will only consider possibly dating someone you spend a lot of time with already. It's nice when you have avenues to meet interesting and attractive people, but life doesn't just hand you the perfect girl/guy you have to get out there and meet people and date people in order to find someone that fits you well.
I would say it's nice when you run into someone in your everyday activities that you find attractive, and have the opportunity to make them an acquaintance before dating them. By having some stuff in common and exchanging in conversation regularly it makes it easier to gauge whether or not dating them might lead to a successful relationship. I wouldn't say that you should only date those acquaintance/friends though. If you do that, you will miss out on a lot of good people and it is already hard enough to find a good match.1