Amount of effort girls should put into dating?

I'm the type that puts in effort but so far, nope.

I don't quite understand the advice that putting in effort makes me look desperate so I should stop...

How on earth are guys supposed to know I'm into them if I don't make any effort...?


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What Guys Said 2

  • Always put in the effort.. Nothing is desperate till you say... Love me or else. Or you know you want me. Effort is everything you need to do to get to know people. Does that sound desperate?

  • I think what is meant by "effort" for both sexes is to just take present themselves well and be sociable, get out, stuff like that


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