my boyfriend has been hanging out with this girl a lot ever sense college started. They never hangout alone, always with a bunch of friends. It's usually all the guys and just her. They all stayed up late in his room playing video games, I think it's weird her staying up with them, and she goes to the gym with him and his friends sometimes (probably dinner but I don't really know though). Anyway, he just told me that she wants to meet me. Why in the world would she want to meet me?
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1. Girls like guy things, too. I know plenty of girls who hang around with guys, play video games with them, go to the gym with them and generally just hang around. She's not trying to get with your boyfriend, she's just in a group of friends your boyfriend is also in. We're not in third grade here, girls are allowed to have male friends.
Hell I'm either the only one or one of two girls in every group I have. I just can't stand girls, too much drama. It's annoying. Now I don't like any of my guy friends I just enjoy their company. Sometimes it's more fun to scream at a TV screen and make poop jokes than gossip, or go to the mall, or something else girlie.
You have no reason to suspect her- 1. she wants to meet you, if something was going on she wouldn't want to meet you. Would you be suspicious if one of his guy friends wanted to meet you? No. She's his friend, he probably talks about you, says you two might get along well. She's a girl, she wants a girl friend, if you're dating him you have to be cool. 2. She only hangs out with him in a group setting, she doesn't want to get him alone or anything. She clearly isn't trying to steal him from you.
Honestly she seems like a really nice girl. She seems cool and sweet for wanting to meet her friend's significant other, maybe help you get involved in the group as well and hang out with them, or just make friends with you 'cause she likes you.
Stop being so suspicious. If you don't trust your boyfriend to push her away and talk to you about it if something was going on, you shouldn't be in that relationship.0