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Good question,I have also wondered this and from the guys I know, I know it is a yes.
I just finished a message about this. "Texting" it its modern sense didn't exist. What kept me from calling the girl (whom I since married) is she wouldn't give me her phone number!I had to use sneaky methods to find it. She freaked. At first. She didn't know I had such means at my disposal. But she got over it. We started dating and the rest is history.
yea but after I get comfortable its not a problem. its just the initial phase
yeah I just don't get it because he had no problem texting me first both times, he had no problem calling me asking me to hang out both times, but then we had sex for the first time (us wise) and he had no problem texting me on the same night as that but then we didn't talk for a week so I texted him today and he asked me to go somewhere with him not this week but next week without any problem..i don't get it.
it sounds to me like it had something to do with the sex since that's when it changed. its hard to say anything because I don't know the circumstances. for example he could be just wanting fwb, he could have changed his mind, etc just for example... but it could be anything
yeah but does a person who wants friends with benifits tell them "next time lets go out to dinner or something because I don't want it to be all about sex" or takes them out to get ice cream or even bothers getting to know them (dislikes, interests, likes, etc) or like when I texted him today he asked me if I wanted to something next weekend like go to an improve show with him (hes a theatre major and I love theatre) ..hes so confusing
we were never really friends to begin with..we just sorta..happened but he's wanting to take me out etc. and I've met his roommates and his sister haha. but yeaaah so idk. its all very weird a bizzare
Maybe he's just unsure what to do because you guys already had sex, so that made things a little weird since he's going for something more, and that should have happened later
I mean, I might get a bit nervous which stalls me but I wouldn't let you make the 1st initiation every time.
what if the guy was the one who usually made the first initiation like we've only been out twice but usually he's the one to do everything. I want to text him but..im scared it would push him away or something and I don't want to come off as desperate because I'm not that type of girl
No, your not coming off as desperate. Communication should go both ways.
theres also a couple other complications with conntacting him..idk if he's a player or not..like he's capable of relationships I know that and last time I saw him he said that we should go out to dinner etc. its all so complicated which is why I wanted him to contact me first this time again but he hasn't sooo..idk.
So reach out to him Duh...Maybe he's waiting on your response to see if your Interested.
haha yeah like that's what I keep saying to myself but he had no trouble calling me to hang out and he had no problem texting me right after we hung out so why would he be scared to text me now.. like he texted me after we hung out "Thanks for a fun night ;) ttyl. night." and we haven't talked since.
Yes off course it does, as a guy I am always afraid of looking to needy or creepy when I text a girl, specially if I text it first. So I time myself. You can thank all the bitches out there.
NO! I mean YES! I don't KNOW!
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