I'm 24, 1 child, and it seems everyone around me are in happy relationships and getting married and crap but I can't manage to have a relationship... am I ugly or something?
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You are not ugly at all, but your child has a big part in what is holding you back. I'm guilty of this myself. If I meet a woman I'm attracted to, we have a good vibe going on, and then I find out that she has a kid and my interest level drops. It has nothing to do with me not being attracted, but just that it's a sacrifice to date a woman with a child because she just can't get up and go like I can. Also, I don't want to start something and get emotionally attached to a kid, and have the kid become attatched to me, and then three or four years down the line we break up. I would rather not put the kid through that especially since I was that kid.
Also, don't worry about finding a guy right now and consider yourself lucky that no guy wants you. The man you want should not only accept you but your child as well. You two are a package deal and you shouldn't accept any less than that. Until then just focus on you and your child until the day comes that a man comes along who will love the both of you.
P.S. It also helps if you stick to men who already have kids themsleves and also older.0