Long story short, I was seeing a guy who is bipolar. He told me he's been depressed lately but when I ask him over text how he's doing he'll say he's good/fine/etc. So whatever.
For the past week he's dropped off the map and I'll always have to text him first. Before, we used to text each other all the time and hang out frequently. He told me multiple times he's weird and I'll probably get sick of him, etc. But none of that bothered me because I'm quirky and different too.
Finally, after asking him to hang out yet again and him saying 'idk' (his now usual response even though he says he's doing absolutely NOTHING), I said okay then I won't bother you anymore. So he texts me a few hours later that day asking did I do something wrong, you said you weren't going to talk to me anymore.
Fast forward to last night. I texted him asking what's up because I was at a party and I said we should hang out later. He says yeah and do what? I said whatever. And he said I don't know if that's a good idea you might be drunk so I said yeah so what, then forget it dude. And he said I'm sorry. I haven't texted him back and I'm not going to because I refuse to be ignored and look like an even bigger idiot.
I just don't know why he acts like he cares when he clearly doesn't. If he did, he would text me AND want to actually see me. -_-
Can I get anyone's thoughts?
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Forgive me for the simplicity of my response, but it just seems like that's the disorder at work. One of my best friends dated a bipolar girl for nearly three years. One minute she'd tell him what a smart, sharp guy he is, the next she'd be telling him how stupid he was because he didn't follow her conspiracy theories.1
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