i keep getting involved with guys where it goes no where!
guy 1- met online. we would talk/text everyday but online or cell. Yet for actual dates we only went on 4! but it was like 1 date/month and I moved on Because it was just going too slow
guy 2- met at a pub, hit it off, but would text on and off every 2 weeks, didn't hook up until 2 months later, but only fooled around. then summer came so I wasn't in town but we kept in touch and fooled around again when I came to visit. but no actual dates. yet we would always talk about hanging out but it neverrrr happened!
guy 3- met him at a pub again with friends, hit it off talked the whole night about common interests like bands, schools courses etc and he asked me to come back and chill but I said no you can have my name and number tho. its been 2 days and no texts...so I guess that's tht
im still a virgin so I'm not acting slutty but I'm not frigid either. but I just don't know what to do Because every guy I meet keeps making empty promises to hang out, I feel like they are all after the same thing
all I want is to go on dates! not be a sexual object
also when I dress up to go out I never show legs! always jeans, but a cute top, little cleav---but I leave things to the imagination
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Guy 1: Wasn't interested.
Guy 2: Call him, make a date. You like him, act like it.
Guy 3: Call him, make a date. You like him, act like it.
"But guys are supposed to be the initiators blah blah blah." Fine, you're right, but guess what? The girl who's picking up the phone and making dates, will *never* have your problems. Think on it.0