On a totally random note, isn't it so frustrating when you meet up with a girl or guy who doesn't talk? Not mute, I mean, but the sort that won't start a topic or get excited or keep talking. I was just thinking about it, because I had a dinner date and she was great for conversation, like 90% of the time we had good talk, except for the last 10% where I started getting serious and she fell silent, lol. But she carried at least half the conversation, which I appreciated.
It was a huge contrast from a girl I met up before her, where conversation was basically ALL me. Like, she carried 10%, and trying to keep some talk going was like pulling teeth, or improvising a comedy show.
So I was just thinking, have you guys and gals run into the same thing like that before? Like, some people are great for conversation, and some just don't talk?
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OMG I totally know what you mean!...xX
I hate carrying the convo! But I don't usually talk that much with people like that because of this very reason..
It's too much work that they don't seem to appreciate so I don't bother any more.
I'd rather put my efforts into seeking out a person who WANTS to engage and be involved in the convo...
The kind of lively convo were you're trying to slip your piece in because you're both so excited about whatever the topic is and you can't get enough of the great company!
But I do get annoyed at people who go on lol...xX1