By "the talk" I mean giving each other the title of bf/gf. A lot of my guy friends seem to think that if you date long enough you're automatically together, but a lot of girls want the title to be official and spelled out. What do you think?
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Every boyfriend I've ever had has been the one to bring it up to me. Whenever I tried to be the one to initiate the talk, the guy would tell me he didn't want a relationship. In my experience, I feel that my most meaningful relationships usually started with the man pursuing me, and also being the one to establish the boyfriend/girlfriend title. Obviously this isn't true for everyone, but I'm speaking from my own experience and what I've observed through other people.0