I'm seeing this guy and in the beginning he used to text me quite a bit...now it seems like I'm the one doing all the texting...and when he does come back to me (hours later or even days later)...he always has an excuse (either : busy at work / his kids car broke down / or I've been out with my son etc).
When I do ask him...if he still want to see me...he says "yes of course"...
Or is he trying to tell me something...but I'm too "stupid" to pick up the signs ?
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You need to fight this urge that women have.. the urge to read things that are not there.
You asked him a simple question. He gave you a simple answer. Trust that answer.
It's the easiest thing in the world for guys to break up with a woman if we want to. Believe me. We can break up by phone, text, fax, face to face, while having sex with your sister... there's no end to it.
The one thing we cannot do, it seems, it make a woman believe a simple answer to a simple question. Women are always looking for the double meaning. The treble meaning. The hidden meaning. The things he didn't say. And giving them as much if not more weight/importance/gravitas as the things he did say.
Resist the urge to do this. It's the most self-destructive urge women have.
You asked if he wanted to still see you. He said "yes, of course".
It really really is that simple.2