I'm 6'3" and athletic. I've always been told I have a beautiful face (and I admit I do have nice features in the face, good hair, and clear skin) but because of how into athletics and nutrition I am I've always had a body that crosses the line a little bit between toned and muscular. Is my height and muscular build scaring guys away? I'm not really a tomboy just active. I only have had one boyfriend and the only reason he dated me was because he had a fetish for dominant women (which I kinda am) and I don't want a guy who is only dating me because of some weird fetish.
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By nature of your height, your build, and the way you likely carry yourself no doubt due to your assumed success in sports and assumedly good posture, you carry yourself as a very assertive and strong willed manner that basically cuts you off from "alpha male" types. Any relationship you enter into will be with a man who likely takes on a submissive role in the relationship. Because of this you will see a role reversal in other aspects of the relationship, including the initiative taken in the beginning.
You're not manly. You're more than likely hot as all hell. But because you are what you are, even though you are a woman (and a real prize of a woman at that) you WILL have to assume some of the relatonship roles traditionally taken by men, and that includes initially approaching prospective boyfriends. You're too intimidating for the other guys.1