By nature I'm shy and reserved, so I don't really pay attention to guys. So now, I'm to the point were I want to know what its like to have someone look only at me and no one else. I want to know what dating is all about and experience it first hand. Can someone please help me?
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The only way I knew if a guy was interested in me is if he told me.
In gay culture there is a concept known as "cruising" link it may be used in heterosexual context, I don't know.
But I never could tell if a guy was cruising me. I assumed it never happened.
I'm married to a female now (I'm bi) and she claims that she noticed other women cruising me ("checking you out" was the term she used) but I don't really believe her. I think she's paranoid.
I certainly never noticed such a thing and again I don't believe it ever happened.
So how do you know? You tell me. I'm just as naive it seems.