Im 16, and I have the most amazing boyfriend, BUT I can't seem to get my mind off another guy :O... so I have known my boyfriend for 3 years, but we only started dating 4 days ago, and he REALLY cares about me, and loves me! He treats me like EVERY girl wants to be treated.. the cute love notes, the I love you's.. the kisses the hugs.. he's PERFECT.. HOWEVER before my boyfriend and I started taking and dating (we hadn't seen each other in 2 years) I fell in love with this guy... I have been in love with him for 6 months... he doesn't like me back, but we are mad flirts! I fell for him so hard, and I feel so complete with him! But he rejected me several times... were best friends, and we have a flirtationship! BUT then I started talking to my Now boyfriend, and we got together! He's not exactly my ideal man physically, but what's on the inside is what I LOVE! he's perfect on the inside! so I stopped being all flirty with the guy I was going after... but yesterday he grabbed my butt, and was really flirty with me! He picked me up, and like hugged me and all... I was rather shocked because he knows I'm taken, but didn't really mind it because it kinda brought the feelings of my liking him back! BUT I DON WANT TO LIKE HIM! I finally found a great guy, and I want to stay with him, and I want to feel the way I feel for the other guy... but I don't know how to do that! I'm so frustrated! I want to fall in love with my boyfriend, but I can't seem to do that! my dreams aren't about my boyfriend, they are about the guy I have been trying to get for half a year... the guy I will never have! WHAT DO I DO?
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1) You're 16.
2) You've been with him four days.
Get over it. You're not in love and neither's he.3