Is it okay if I let the girl do most of the work next time?

So far, every girl I've been interested never ended up going out with me. There's been one or two girls before then that were interested in me, and I remember that they took the initiative, though I was too naive then to realize it.

Is it okay if I just wait now to let a girl show some initiative first? I was pretty badly burned with the last girl I tried; that's gonna hurt for a while.


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  • No. I don't think you should let her do all the work. she's gonna want something from u, meaning like you have to put out because she might not want to do all the work (get tired/bored from doing all the work) or think you're not interested. You got hurt before and yeah that's understanding, but you can't judge every girl now based off that one girl that hurt you.


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