Have you used or tried the "Pandoras Box" dating and seduction guide to meet women?
If so, did it seem to work?
Looking for feedback pertaining to the quality or viability if this guide.
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The problem with any of these "systems" is the need to actually practice them in real life - not easy, since the guy who'd be interested in learning them wouldn't likely be motivated in actually going out and meeting girls in the first place :) So, for 90% of the guys who buy the seminars or go to the bootcamps, nothing changes in their life. In a way, that's good, because most PU advice is very mechanical and lacks spontaneity, which is one of THE essential elements in PU. Canned lines do not work very well - they're OK for starting out, but girls easily pick up on the artificial quality of it.
Some of the BEST PU material isn't even directly PU related. The first thing I'd suggest you read is a excerpt from Michael Ellsberg's book "Power of Eye Contact", which has a fascinating breakdown of Bill Clinton's charisma. The ellsberg book is great as well.
Another very applicable read comes from a body language expert named Mark Bowden (look him up on Youtube) and his book "The Trust Plane". Great stuff that very few people know about.
Also, far better than any seminar would be to sign up for an Improv class. You don't even have to be good. If you're a beginner you're expected to be really rough and ...bad. The thing you learn however is to think on your feet. This is incredibly useful for natural approaches, which is the best way to attract a chick - at least one you never met.
And read up on The Three Second Rule - this is remarkably effective to make the interaction as natural as possible.
As far as video seminars from PUA, the ones I found to be good were David Wygant, who has a natural approach to PU (not very canned), and Paul Janka, who is an expert on Day Game and getting numbers. Both of them have vids on Youtube for previewing.
And despite all of these systems, secrets, techniques - in the end, it's a numbers game. Expect a 10% success rate in getting a girls phone number from a chick you walk up to on the street during the day. The other big secret is giving yourself permission to fail a lot in the beginning. As adults, we all want to be able to do things perfectly the first time. Finally, you have to throw caution to the wind and actually talk to women - as long as you're cool, the vast majority will be happy to talk back to you. Girls LIKE being approached, as long as you are cool and confident. Smile. And remember, the world is filled with abundance. There's always another hottie right around the corner.
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