So, I have been posting about b.s. that is happening recently in my relationship. I was so mad today at my boyfriend that I started to text my brother and ask him what he thought. My brother is right next to my boyfriend on my phone and after three full on ranting texts to my brother I saw they were going to my boyfriend!
He hasn't replied to me. This was over an hour ago. Earlier we had a fight. He is not being kind to me at all. He hung up on me and then ignored me and then when he did talk to me he was dismissive and admitted that too. I am about to break up with him and wanted to talk to my brother about this.
During our argument my boyfriend (probably lied) said his battery was dying and he had to go. I think he is out with someone else right now (long story on other posts).
ANy way, I screwed up! Once I saw what I was doing, I sent another text saying, "just kidding, I was starting to play a joke on you to see what you would do, but then I changed my mind because it wasn't nice." UGH - how lame of me! I do play jokes on him a lot, so it sound sort of feasible. Does anyone else have any other ideas?
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He's not serious about you. So why are you still wasting time on him? It's clear he's just not that into you. He only makes time to see you once a week? He won't introduce you to his family, he spends 99% of time with his friends and doesn't invite you out with them. It's very clear you're nothing but a convenience to him. He sees you whenever he feels like it. He doesn't particularly care about your feelings or that you're upset with the situation. If he cared, he'd change it. He hasn't. And he has no reason to. You stay with him. You whine, and cry, and get angry, and nag, and then... you stay. And you just continue seeing him and running to him every Saturday. He knows he has you where he wants. He has full control of you. You need to just cut him loose and start living life for you. Stop running when he wants to see you. HE should be chasing YOU not the other way around. Go out with your friends, stop complaining about what he does or doesn't do. Act indifferent, and aloof. Start blowing HIM off. Stop picking up when HE calls. If he asks you to hang out on Saturday, say no. Men are affected by actions, not by words. Your complaints are falling on deaf ears. Once you start taking action and start standing up for yourself is when he'll start taking notice.0