I went on a casual date with a guy and I really liked him, and at the end of the date told me to text him, which I did. I told him I'd like to see him again and he said after the holidays would be okay. Is it okay to contact him between this time? I don't want to seem desperate or overbearing. Or should I just wait until after the holidays?
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Read The Rules by Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider. It's old school but you're past 30 and it works. You should have told him after the date for him to text you. Men need to pursue. That's how they invest in relationships early. Let him come to you. If he doesn't then he just wasn't that into you. If you keep contacting him, you can't help but look desperate no matter what you say in the texts or calls.0