i'm so confused. so I got blowoff from guy after I sent him a text that kinda told him off (long story). but then after two weeks, he contacted me via text said how sorry he was for blowing me off that my text was completely fair to send that he was really sorry that he had had feelings for me but was overwhelmed and had to focus on custody fight with ex wife and was so stressed and overworked and tired and had to focus. that he wanted to keep seeing me that I was great girl but that he had to wait until he got his custody stuff dealt with first. that he would call me and he understood if I didn't pick up. I said I understood, etc. well we both met online...he sometimes still goes on, but I try not to read into that too much as some guys said he may just be bored and it may mean nothing. especially Because he seems likehonest and legit guy. but that confuses me...he was looking at my pics on the site when I was on and was listed as "most attracted" to me based on his viewings of me. I ended up getting off the site Because I don't want to deal with most of the losers who write me and I don't feel like seeing when/if he goes on. but y if he thinks I'm so great and knows he wants to see me after this is all over, y wouldn't he want to see me or talk to me now? I feel it keeps me on the hook and how about if he never does end up calling me. but it's hard to let go really like him. and I'm not the kinda girl to wait around for someone but I feel he may be worth it? but am I being a fool?
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Okay... You feel like a guy that you met online, that's in a custody battle(divorced), that blew you off, may be worth it?... ummmNo.
Sounds like he's dating/f***ing around. Not in a Player sort of way. In a taking anything he can get sort of way.
How did he blow you off? Doesn't matter how busy you are; It takes 20 seconds, Tops, to send a "Hey, I can't make it. Really sorry." text message.
I'd say, if he stopped talking to you for 2 weeks, then started back up again, he was probably seeing someone else that he liked more, but it didn't work out so he went back to you.0