just stating facts and my personal assessment of you based photos, you fit the description...thick, white girl that smokes weed and loves reggae. Do whatever makes you happy.
It seems pretty common that girls gets fixed ideas of what an attractive guy is. It can be a black hip-hop guy, tall white goth guy, chubby bald guy, and so on.
Good for you. Is there an actual question in here anywhere? The saying 'once you go black, you don't go back' has more of a foundation in that Caucasian men often want nothing to do with a Caucasian woman who has dated blacks. The acid test is, if you do find a white guy you like, tell him that all of your recent boyfriends have been black and see what happens.
It's a preference. I like Asian women like you like black men. I acknowledge there are some attractive women of other ethnicities, but I still find myself seeking out the Asian women. Ironically, I don't find black women attractive.
Im kind of in a similar situation but with native guys. Had sex with one and now I find them more attractive than I did before but I still love my white guys, but a little tan is always nice. :)
Ive been with a black guy, and we had fun but it could never be anything serious as my family would disapprove! So I've gone black and won't go back for different reasons. I'm attracted to all races.
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Don't worry about it, you'll go back to normal when you realize that you'll be paying their way rather then the other way around.
Plus its also fashionable for girls to date black guys now, so wait until the fad is over and then you'll be hooked on whatever the next thing is.
Also note that there won't be a lot of white guys that would want you after going out with a black guy so it kinda works out that you don't find them attractive.
I wouldn't say it's ignorant at all. Just as the QA says she won't date anyone other than blacks, there are going to be people who won't want her for that.
Hmmmm... lol simply not true. I'm a successful network engineer for At&t that make a very good living. I make my own hours, enjoy what I do, and have creative freedom. I'm actually going back to school next year to earn another degree in mechanical engineering. Not to brag but my significant other is well taken care of in and out of the bedroom. I'm African American with 12 years military experience as a light infantry scout, 6 foot 4 inches at 285 lbs with close ties to law enforcement leadership and regional political leaders here in Missouri so she is of course well protected as well. Not to say there aren't plenty of black men who aren't worth a damn but it's honestly just like every other race; there are scholars and thugs for every breed. But basically what you're saying is that your daughter dated an African American you would tell her the same thing that you've stated on this website. I've been attending many different schools to include professional leadership and oil field engineering schools, yet the faces I've seen in there are black, brown, white, etc. We all respect each other greatly. You should see one of my many (MANY) different class photos. I'm the tall black guy standing in the back row next to the other tall caucasian, arabic, hybrid breed ladies and gentlemen. You obviously are just blue collar bigot who will die one day and be quickly forgotten by friends, family, enemies, and strangers alike.
If you get an opportunity to go on a date or be intimate with a non black guy, give him a chance. However, it's not shameful to only like black guys, but you are just limiting your options.
i don't think I am limiting. I limited myself to only white guys before, and now I see the beauty in all races. I wish I was this clear-headed a loooong time ago.
there's someone for everyone. I agree, you shouldn't limit yourself. I'm not particularly attracted to MOST latino women especially mexicans but if one came along that took pride in her own identity, and we also possessed great chemistry I would definitely date. The same rings true for any other "race"
Once you go black, you don't go back meaning is that you develop a taste and now you have educated taste buds... black is the coolest color, so it's always fair to say that you will like it when you start the black. It also shows you thinner.
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i have never been with a black guy but I want to so baaadddd
why?
Cuz they're hot
just stating facts and my personal assessment of you based photos, you fit the description...thick, white girl that smokes weed and loves reggae. Do whatever makes you happy.
LOL I agree. She has more in common with black folks than with men of other races.
Do white guys not smoke weed and listen to reggae?
What a racist thing to say
i don't know any white guys that do...wait, you know, I do know this one guy...and all he dates is black chics. check and check mate
It seems pretty common that girls gets fixed ideas of what an attractive guy is. It can be a black hip-hop guy, tall white goth guy, chubby bald guy, and so on.
I know, you girls are weird. ;)
Good for you. Is there an actual question in here anywhere? The saying 'once you go black, you don't go back' has more of a foundation in that Caucasian men often want nothing to do with a Caucasian woman who has dated blacks. The acid test is, if you do find a white guy you like, tell him that all of your recent boyfriends have been black and see what happens.
It's a preference. I like Asian women like you like black men. I acknowledge there are some attractive women of other ethnicities, but I still find myself seeking out the Asian women.
Ironically, I don't find black women attractive.
Im kind of in a similar situation but with native guys. Had sex with one and now I find them more attractive than I did before but I still love my white guys, but a little tan is always nice. :)
Ive been with a black guy, and we had fun but it could never be anything serious as my family would disapprove! So I've gone black and won't go back for different reasons. I'm attracted to all races.
Don't worry about it, you'll go back to normal when you realize that you'll be paying their way rather then the other way around.
Plus its also fashionable for girls to date black guys now, so wait until the fad is over and then you'll be hooked on whatever the next thing is.
Also note that there won't be a lot of white guys that would want you after going out with a black guy so it kinda works out that you don't find them attractive.
Why wouldn't guys want a girl who has been with a black guy before? That's the most ignorant thing I've ever heard.
I wouldn't say it's ignorant at all. Just as the QA says she won't date anyone other than blacks, there are going to be people who won't want her for that.
Hmmmm... lol simply not true. I'm a successful network engineer for At&t that make a very good living. I make my own hours, enjoy what I do, and have creative freedom. I'm actually going back to school next year to earn another degree in mechanical engineering. Not to brag but my significant other is well taken care of in and out of the bedroom. I'm African American with 12 years military experience as a light infantry scout, 6 foot 4 inches at 285 lbs with close ties to law enforcement leadership and regional political leaders here in Missouri so she is of course well protected as well. Not to say there aren't plenty of black men who aren't worth a damn but it's honestly just like every other race; there are scholars and thugs for every breed. But basically what you're saying is that your daughter dated an African American you would tell her the same thing that you've stated on this website. I've been attending many different schools to include professional leadership and oil field engineering schools, yet the faces I've seen in there are black, brown, white, etc. We all respect each other greatly. You should see one of my many (MANY) different class photos. I'm the tall black guy standing in the back row next to the other tall caucasian, arabic, hybrid breed ladies and gentlemen. You obviously are just blue collar bigot who will die one day and be quickly forgotten by friends, family, enemies, and strangers alike.
I'm impressed! Keep it up. Go black nvr turn back ;)
Racism of any type, is not something I typically agree with, no.
I've been with two black guys... wow, but... not the best! :o)
wow?
and are you white?
Haha sorry yes I'm white. And wow, as in big but it was not the best sex ever..
I've been with a couple of black guys, and since I've been with white guys.
So no, quite clearly, I don't agree with it.
Okay? That is good for you... so what? Everyone has their own personal preference.
OHh and the once you go black you never go back statement is false.
Black men are hot. Love 'em.
:D
There are a lot of racist p***** on this website. wow.
If you get an opportunity to go on a date or be intimate with a non black guy, give him a chance. However, it's not shameful to only like black guys, but you are just limiting your options.
i don't think I am limiting. I limited myself to only white guys before, and now I see the beauty in all races. I wish I was this clear-headed a loooong time ago.
There are more races than just black and white.
thanks. read. :)
there's someone for everyone. I agree, you shouldn't limit yourself. I'm not particularly attracted to MOST latino women especially mexicans but if one came along that took pride in her own identity, and we also possessed great chemistry I would definitely date. The same rings true for any other "race"
@sarahbe23 perfect mindset. Dont let anyone change it. You are perfect
it happens I guess, I am Hispanic and I have a thing for short, pretty, plump Italian ladies...dont know why. I really love em.
aww cute lol
I wouldn't know, I don't to my ex's or I try my best not to.
So I can't say if its true or not, Well not my problem personally.
i don't talk to my ex's*
Once you go black, you don't go back meaning is that you develop a taste and now you have educated taste buds... black is the coolest color, so it's always fair to say that you will like it when you start the black. It also shows you thinner.
Its just your preference now, you can go back, you just have a preference now and you stick to it.
No biggie.