I've been dating my boyfriend for 5 months (serious relationship) and his two best friends are girls and he has more friends that are girls in general. I don't mind that he has friends that are girls, I just want to go too because it makes me paranoid even though I trust him (I don't trust them; he was cheated on in a previous relationship).
He never invites me to hang out with his friends that are girls, only the guys. Also his girl friends say stuff on Facebook like "hanging out with my best friend (girl) and my long lost bf" or take pics with him to make it look like they are kissing him on the cheek.
Mind you, I have no friends here yet (just moved here) so I can't do the reverse psychology thing.
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It is weird that he doesn't invite you over when he goes out with his girlfriends. You aren't paranoid at all. It is your right to hang out with them. Guys are keen to introduce their girlfriends to the whole world when it is a serious relationship. It's odd that he doesn't. I guess that his friends joke too much and he doesn't want you to see this. Maybe he feels more comfortable when you aren't around because no one is there to monitor his actions and say "Why did you say/did this and that?" "Why did she tell you this and that?", etc...he doesn't want drama + he wants to do whatever he wants. That is why he doesn't want you in the picture. Seriously you need to tell him that right in the face. Be calm and polite but ask him why and if he made up excuses tell him it seems that he doesn't want you to be there and that it's weird.1