So basically, I started a new course last week and on my first day got chatting to a really nice guy who has quickly become my crush...in our class on Friday he seemed really stressed so in the evening I sent him a fb message to see if he was all right. Yesterday he replied with a really detailed response and started talking about how he wanted people to see him how he used to be. He finished the message by saying have a good weekend. So should I reply or not? It seems rude to not reply but I don't want to seem too keen or anything? Thanks for any advice!
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Most Helpful Girl
Of course you should! If you like him then you should definitely be friendly with him. Otherwise you won't get anywhere. If you're fearing of seeming keen whenever it comes to things like this use this trick. Whenever you're in doubt over replying to something or saying something imagine it was another guy friend of yours whom your not really interested in romantically. Would you still have replied to him? Yes because that's just proper manners! So just keep using this technique but at the end remember, sometimes it's good to put yourself out there if you have nothing to lose. Being obvious is a risk but that could actually be the best thing you've ever done, by being open and honest about your feelings.0