Theres this guy I like, and he likes me, but we aren't dating. We've kind of settled on being friends with benefits, and he wants me to kiss him at school but I've never kissed a boy at school. it was always at houses and stuff, not in front of other people. & honestly I don't know if he's true, like if he's just playin me or not. idk, but what should I do? and if I should kiss him, how do I go about that at school?
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Honestly? The whole 'friends with benefits' part is just a facade for people not to get hurt...
You on the other hand seem like a person who likes to get closer to someone. Getting hurt sometime is just a big - and important - part of life.
If you like him more than just friends (withOUT benefits) tell him and he has to decide.
If you are ok with the benefits part, then I see no reason why you shouldn't kiss him.
However as mentioned above - you seem like kissing is a bigger part for you (at least when people are around) so that would be an exclusive for a boyfriend would it be?0