How to be realistic?

When I meet a guy for the first time, I usually go with the flow - I flirt and chat but don't really think much of it. But when I've had time to myself, my mind starts to wander and so I imagine the perfect relationship with the guy. And then in reality I either ruin things with my over-enthusiasm or I'm extremely disappointed. I know it's a terrible thing to do, but I feel like I can't help it! Why do I over think things...? I blame TV shows for their idealized version of relationships!


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  • Wow, I feel like that was me talking because I do the EXACT SAME THING, and end up with the SAME results. its annoying but as soon as I start to daydream about a guy a make myself stop and think about other more important things. Come on girl, we can do it! Haha,