I do not think that dating is for me. It always end up bad for me. I am not really an outgoing person and I like to to the same things over and over again. I may be boring to certain women but that is how I live lol. Should I become a monk for the rest of my life?
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Is giving up dating entirely going to make you happiest in the long run? I think we all have times in our lives when it's highly appropriate to lock ourselves away in the metaphorical tower and not pursue relationships for a while. If the tower is what your heart needs to heal and gain the strength to try again, that's totally okay. But there is a girl out there who is a creature of habit, just like you, who is going to be desperately disappointed if you lock yourself in the tower for life. She's waiting to bump into you at that coffee shop that she goes to every Thursday morning or her favorite restaurant. So sure, put yourself in the tower. It's a warm and safe place where no one is going to break your heart or think that you're boring. Just be fair with yourself and acknowledge the fact that you aren't going to stay forever.1
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