I recently meet this guy that I had a automatic attraction to. The next night he held a house party in which everyone stayed over (including myself). We all had a really good time, chatting drinking and the usual party stuff. He took me out on his quad bike around his property, it was super romantic as he only took me when everyone else wanted to come :) After that we were talking for quite a while then we went for a walk through his orchard and we hooked up, yeah it was incredibly romantic. After everyone was super tired so we all went to sleep, naturally this guy and myself shared a bed and being in a drunk ( not smashed and I knew exactly what I was doing) after I left in the morning everything was fine, gave him a kiss on the cheek and left( I had work early). We have been talking since and he's asked me out to a 'ill Show you a cool place' Date or just a friendly catch up or do you think that he wants sex? I'm the sort of person who things way to much into things so I may be doing that now. But I just need some advice :) thanks in advance
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Well first off, you said you had instant attraction. Chances are he picked up on this.
Two, he invites you over to a party and takes you out solo. So he picked up that you like him AND is trying to woo you. You guys "hooked up." Whether this meant making out, or sex, I don't know. That term is used far too loosely for misc. things. Regardless, you said you met him recently, and here you are already getting all physical with him.
Attraction + you putting out after such a short amount of time/attention = green flag for him to woo you into bed.
However, it could easily go the other way and he could really like you. However, this early in the game, it's hard to say. I've been in both scenarios and it can be really, really hard to tell.
With that said, if you're not sure, DON'T put out. It's that simple. If you want to see what he's truly about, DON'T put out. His true colors will show if you don't give him the goods. I've had that happen before with guy friends who did all sorts of song and dance bs. Once they realized they weren't getting any, they disappeared or turned into total a**holes. For your sake, since you seem worried that's all he's about, hold off on sex. If he gets rude or pissy about you saying no, there's your answer. Nothing sucks more than being fooled by this smoke screen of nice/sweet guy and finding out he was just in it for sex.0