Can you TRULY romantically love two people at once? And not have stronger feelings for one over the other?
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It is not only possible, it is typical, insofar as the chemical mechanism of love is concerned. You can google it for more info, but basically depending on where you are in a menstrual cycle your TRUE heart's desire gets biased one way or another.
Most days in a month the general tendency is to gravitate to somebody of a similar social and genetic background who is successful, kind to you and well-rounded. When you are ovulating, during the week when you are most likely to get knocked up, you will SOMEWHAT switch preference to men possessing exaggerated masculine traits and more of a complementary (different) social and genetic background.
This is nothing to be ashamed or feel guilty about - just nature's wicked ways.2