I was suppose to go on a date with this guy I've been seeing yesterday, he was suppose to pick me up at 1pm... I text him at 12 saying "text me when you leave babe, looking forward to seeing you x" ... no reply. I rang him at 1:15pm, and it rang out then went to voice mail.
Didn't hear off him for the whole day and he hasn't been on Facebook either (which is VERY strange as he usually goes on everyday).
I text him last night around 7pm, but nothing...
Strange thing is.. I know he was out with his friends drinking on Saturday night, and there was a few random Facebook status around 4/5am Sunday morning, and then.. one of his friends writes on his wall.. "Hope you get out of the hospital in the morning :( xxx"
Everything was great between us, we spoke around 10:30pm Saturday night and he said he was looking forward to seeing me on Sunday...
I don't know what to do, I've waited all day yesterday and some of this morning... any ideas? xx
He text me about an hour, apologising (over and over again)... he got into a fight and did end up in hospital, he is gonna speak to me later when he is home x
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Your central problem is that you go completely barmy if you don't hear from him after a short period of time. It just reeks of insecurity and desperation. If you get stood up, or you don't hear from him for half a day, you have no option but to let it go and find something better to do. You said yourself, everything was absolutely fine on Saturday. Why do you assume the worst (ie that he's with another woman). There could be a whole host of possible explanations for his disappearance. Your only option is to let it go and find out when he contacts you. All the other options debase you. When he contacts you, you can determine for yourself if his excuse is plausible, if something doesn't add up. Plus these suspicious behavior s are cumulative. If he repeatedly treated you badly then you're right to be concerned. If everything hitherto was fine, then why do you always assume the worst? Without meaning to be rude, I think you should find some extra hobbies, because having this guy be the be all and end all must be very offputting from his perspective, you will drive him away. BTW I'm also referring to the other post you made about him recently.1