Should I text her happy birthday or not?

My friend's birthday is coming up and we haven't talked in a while.We almost hooked up twice,even though she has a boyfriend.I don't know if she is feeling guilty but she has distanced herself ...

Should I call,text or give her the gift of missing me as she has done the past weeks?

Yeah I think our friendship is more important right now.

I'll probably text her,even though I'd like to hear her voice...

I know that I should call her.She has told me that she prefers it over texting.

But things have changed..we had some very intimate moments but my overeagerness coupled with her guilt probably led to this..i could have been more subtle,you know?

I know she misses me..and I miss her too..

It hurts because my attemps to contact her backfired..and I felt stupid.

We haven't spoken for 2 weeks now..i can't be the only one initating anymore..

It's tough maybe I'll call maybe I'll text...i don't know :(


Most Helpful Girl

  • just text her, no need to go crazy with it, the ball is in her court but you don't want to relinquish your friendship so a text would be fine

    • hey thanks for the BA, hope it worked out

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What Girls Said 2

  • shes probably feeling guilty and confused

    dont forget he birthday just because she doesn't know what she wants right now...

    salvage what's left of your friendship.

  • Call to tell her Happy Birthday.

    • Texting is not as nice as calling. It's her birthday, not a "Hey, what's up?" sort of message you're trying to convey.

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