Do you plan on getting kissed? Do you want to have the guy hold your hand? Do I have to pass a big test to get a third date? Basically, I'm preparing my emotional shield for tomorrow night when I go on my second date with this girl I really like. I want to get a third date with her very much. I just hope being fun and interesting allows this to happen. I'm not great at taking the initiative to be touchy feely, but everything I read says if you don't touch her or kiss her on the second date that your chances are zero for being her boyfriend.