I text the man I'm dating everyday. I try not to but I just want to say hi. I'll always wait until he replies before I send a second texts because I don't want to look needy or high maintenance... But I am always the one to texts first. Do you think texting everyday annoys him? Would it annoy you? Or would you like to get texts from the girl your dating?
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I would love to gets texts from a girl I like everyday.I don't think I would get tired of it.I think it shows someone you care for them and want to be involved in there life.It would not annoy me.I would be texting the girl I like too and sometimes I would probably send the first text.If he is busy it might annoy him.How long does he take to respond, if it always takes along time for him to respond even when you know he is at home and not busy chances are it is annoying him or he doesn't care unfortunately,but it maybe be also he doesn't know what to say or have anything to say.You may be the one to text him first because he might be busy and he might be waiting till he is off work or not busy to text you.You could try not texting him for a few days and see what happens.And how often do you see him?Does he want to see you and happy to see you when he does?When he does see you is he only interested in sex and not anything else like talking and asking how your day was and what you did?Does he make excuses for why he didn't text you back or can't see you?Does he say as little as possible when he is texting you back and not have anything to say to you?
I was texting a girl and we were "just friends".It was not everyday.I did want to be more then friends and I had told her this but I would have settled for friends.I knew her from before and recently started to talk to her again.I only texted her like 6 times total in 3 weeks.I know she did have contact with another guy but since she wouldn't say anything I don't know if it was serious or not.And I slowed down and stopped quickly when she did the following.She would not say much of anything.Stop replying a short time after we would be texting back and forth,then make excuses for why she stopped.Not respond at all for days.I asked her if she wanted to talk to me and she would say yes I am just busy.I told her multiple times that if she didn't want to talk to me it wouldn't hurt my feelings or anything like that and that it was not really a big deal.So finally she was just ignoring me which pissed me off because I had told her just to tell me and I wouldn t text her ever again.I couldn't understand why she couldn't just say it.I also told her just to tell me the truth whatever that might be if she was thinking of getting to know me better before she met other people that is cool,she just wanted to f***,she ? whatever I don't care.I told her nothing she could say would make me hate her or mad.So I finally determined that she was trying to play me or something and trying to mind f*** me.I deleted her number and told her to have a nice life and that if that is how she treats her friends then I don't want to know her.I don't see how any sane person could do that to someone, so I am sure she has some major head problems and is a sociopath or pyschotic.I guess this is how she told me she didn't want anything to do with me.To me it is pretty f***in chicken sh*t and fake to do it this way even for a girl.0