Okay so I've met this really really gorgeous girl through work (yes I'm well aware of all the people saying its a bad idea to date anyone from work so please ignore this!) and I'd definitely be "punching above my weight", however she laughs at any little joke I make, no matter how bad it is, and she always comes to chat with me randomly. She always bring up how she went jogging and asked if/where I go.
I have no idea if she likes me or is simply making convo but my question is, I'm sort of "intimidated" I guess because I know some of her ex's and they are mostly all "metro" pretty boys if you know what I mean.
Don't get me wrong I'm fit and healthy but I definitely don't fit the whole "metro" shave-my-chest kind of guy, so should I go for it or not? Is it normal for you to feel intimidated by "hot" ex bf/gfs?
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Screw the people who say it does matter, what happened in both of your pasts is only your buisness and dude your kicking yourself down before you even ask her out, I definitely think she likes you from her laughing at even the bad jokes, you would have to like someone a lot to do that lol I mean someone you don't like and they make a lame joke like that you would be like "err... yeh, that's lame" lol but this girl doesn't, she is hooked on every word you say which is a POSITIVE THING!. Stop thinking that people only go for certain types, this isn't true, who cares if you don't fit in with any social group only a sheep would try and fit in with social groups, be your own person and show her that your not like other guys. When you brake up with someone you do it a REASON because obviously you just don't get on so why would she wanna go back with any of her ex's? lol don't be silly. I have no idea what type are "metro" types ether but as a girl who is her own person I hate the whole labeling thing that people do to others, it gives room for you to pre-judge people before you know them from what lies is fed to us, it's what's inside that counts, when you've met so many horrible men that bully you, a guy who will be nice to us is worth far more than those pretty boys who think they are something and you definitely are cute from seeing your picture so don't put yourself down, life isn't worth living if you don't take any risks, don't be so afraid to, it's not your fault when someone rejects you, not everyone is meant to be attracted to you.3